Something from "A Walk To Remember"

Aku tgk movie ni time 2nd year.... Sad movie... Rs sedih tp as always.. nak nangis time tgk movie tu susah laaaa.. but i do love one quote from this movie.... but now.. aku agak mempertikaikan quote ni...

"Love is always patient and kind. It is never jealous. Love is never boastful or conceited. It is never rude or selfish. It does not take offense and is not resentful." 

Love is always patient and kind - tp nape aku tgk org yang bercinta x penyabar... always nak bergado..i remember my sis said.. if the relationship terlalu banyak sakit dari happy..its not healthy... so better move on... but there are always people yang sanggup tahan sakit tu.... is that consider as patient? as kind? if thats the case... then i'll pass... maybe what i feel its not love.. coz i dont have that patient and kind....


It is NEVER jealous - jeles? i think its the main essence of a relationship....tp jeles perlu bertempat.. bukan pakai larong jer... tp kalau bende kecik yang x mudarat pon nak jeles.... is that love? kalo bukan.. then what's it called? but NEVER jealous is IMPOSSIBLE...... yang perlu cume rational....

Love is NEVER boastful or conceited - cinta x pernah bongkak? whats there to be proud of? owh aku ade bf sehensem robert pattinson... owh.. aku ader gf se'hot' jessica alba.... camtu bongkak eh? then i think i'll agree with this one... Bagi aku.. kalo betol2 sayang sumbody ,u dont need jessica alba or robert pattionson.. u just need sumbody that when u wake up the next morning.. u'll see his/her face... u'll smile.. a very big smile and feel contented..... Thats LOVE for me....


It is never rude or selfish - Never rude: yEss but Selfish: arguable....... when i really love sumone.. i try not to be rude.. i try to make every conversation as sweet as it can be... i try to please.... so in return... i hope that he'll be my good listener.. be there when i need him... make me feel that i am not alone... show me that he need me too.. susah ke? x kan.. x pakai duit pon kan.... SELFISH??? i think sumtimes perlu selfish jugak... u need to have your own happiness... kalo dh he gave u shits all the times,, buat ko sedih everyday until u forgot to smile and u forgot that there are a lot more other things in this world selain dia,,, i think in this case. u need to be selfish.... REMEMBER.. EVERYONE has their own RIGHT to find their happy place... whether its with u or without u.... just terima dengan hati yang lapang... a relationship with only love at one side is BULLSH*T.. sorry... i've been through it... at first its ok.. tp bile relationship tu diuji... ko x kan mampu nak bertahan... sbb ko x sepenuh hati... sebab what u did earlier is compromise... and its not LOVE.. but in the end... its ur choice buddy... i've chose mine... even aku x tau sama ada aku bakal untung atau rugi... afterall.. LOVE is gamble... tp aku tau.. aku tak boleh compromise lagi... i dont want to wake up each morning.. see the face and said " why is this face and not him?"... and i wont be able to smile....pathetic giler laaa wey

and finally...............

It does not take offense and is not resentful - bile ko sayang sumbody.. u expect the most of him/her.... i think this is the root of all problems... when u expect the most and he/she cannot deliver... u feel frustrated... ni punca korang dok nak marah jer... nak merajuk jer... but i know... when u really love a person.. u try ur best to make this particular person happy.. and do whatever it takes just to see the smile on his/her face... so please.. have faith in ur partner... never asked too much... never make him/her promised sumthg that he/she themselves never sure of it... sbb nnt korg yang akan FRUST tonggeng2.. bile dh frust... u start digging out everythg.. u start to compare... and u'll start marah2.... Maybe this is why they said.. LOVE does not take offense and is not resentful... becoz kalo ko terima diorg seadanya.... it wont be resentful.... first rule ever... BE YOURSELF... ACCEPT HIM/HER AS WHAT THEY ARE... JANGAN HIDUP DALAM BAYANG2 OK!...JANGAN BERHARAP DIA AKAN BERUBAH UNTUK KAU.. BIAR DIA BERUBAH UNTUK DIRI DIA SENDIRI...

(reason tulis this entry is : suddenly terdengar OST A Walk To Remember..  and suddenly remember the quotes... tulis sekadar ingatan untuk diri sendiri juga.....and kepuasan bile dapat tulis ape aku pikir.. so komen2 busuk tidak dialu-alukan.. aku tau others might have different opinion.. but this entry is MINE ok.)